Letter

Dear Annie,

I am one of Jim’s friends Amanda; 3 days ago I heard about your stories. Jim is so sad now because he just lost his best friend, girl friend, and 1.5 million dollars. As a friend of him, I wanna give you some of my opinions in this letter.

You were his girl friend, the person he loved the most in this world, but you left him just because of the deferred wedding. I have to say that what you have done by now was telling everyone that your boyfriend’s position was even not as high as a stupid wedding. "Annie, I have something to tell you. I need to follow my heart, I need to invest in the musical company, it's my final shot!"--this is what he told you, and you can tell how much he loves music, but you just said he was selfish because he wanted to pursue his dream first. In my point of view, everyone has his right to pursue the dreams. However, what you thought about all day was just the wedding dress, honeymoon, house, and car. To be honest, have you ever cared about him?

Jim said that Sam told him: “ you earn much more money than 1.5 million, that you can provide her with the best life in the world. The only price for her is to wait for a couple of years.” Then he agreed. You see, what he want to pursue was not only his dream, but also a better life that he can provide for you! You may not know, the next day right after your quarrel, he came to find Sam; however Sam betrayed him and left with his money. He was desperate, and when he came back home, your letter appeared. You broke up with him, and your words were just like the last straw that broke his back.

If I were you, I would choose to stay with him and do whatever I can to  help him, because as his fiancé I should also struggle for our  family, and future. Family is composed by both of you, and it is unfair to put all the responsibility on his shoulder. Please, think about your decision. You should calm down and then talk with him. He really needs you now! If you love him, you should support him to chase his dream, and give him courage to get out of grief. Love is not chains, you need to know how to compromise for someone you love, and help him when he is in trouble. However, if you still consist that he should disappear in you life only because of the wedding, then maybe breaking up is lucky for him.

Jim and you were happy, think of those days. Don't hurt him; he is waiting for you!

yours,

Amanda